FAQs

Aren’t all new moms tired and moody?
Yes, new moms typically feel tired and overwhelmed. Most will experience some degree of the “baby blues”. But when these feelings don’t go away within a few weeks, it may be PPD and may require treatment.

When can PPD develop?
Pregnancy and postpartum depression or other disorders can occur any time during pregnancy through about the first year following childbirth.

Will PPD go away on its own?
Not usually. It is a real illness. And, like many illnesses, PPD almost never goes away without treatment. The good news is that there are many treatments available that work. Once you reach out for help you are on your way to feeling like yourself again.

How long does PPD last?
It’s different for every mom, but the sooner you begin treatment the sooner you will start to feel better. Some women feel better within a few weeks, but others feel “not themselves” for many months. The important thing to remember is that pregnancy and postpartum depression is treatable. Help is available and with treatment and support, you can feel better.

What if I feel this way because I just wasn’t meant to be a mother?
PPD is a medical illness and has nothing to do with how fit or prepared you are for becoming a mother. Self-blame is a frequent symptom of PPD and robs mothers of confidence in their abilities. There is nothing that a woman with PPD could have done to avoid the disorder.

Are moms with PPD a danger to their children?
RARELY. A common symptom of PPD is that a mother may have frightening thoughts about harm coming to her infant. Women with this symptom are usually very ashamed and feel horrible about the thoughts. This is very different from postpartum psychosis, which is a life-threatening disorder. The .01% of women who experience postpartum psychosis may be at risk for hurting themselves or others.

If you have thoughts about harming yourself or others you should ask your family or doctor for help right away.

Doesn’t pregnancy prevent depression or a related disorder?
No. Being pregnant is not a guarantee against developing depression. In fact, studies show that a woman is most likely to experience depression during her childbearing years than at any other point in her lifetime.

What kinds of treatments help with pregnancy-postpartum depression or related disorder? Some options include:

  • Counseling or psychotherapy
  • Support groups
  • Medications
  • Assistance with childcare and other demands of daily life
  • Practicing self-care

How do medications used for PPD affect breast-feeding?
It’s important to talk to your doctor about any medication you take when breast-feeding. Studies show the antidepressants most likely to be prescribed for PPD often pose a very small risk to breast-fed babies. POEM can help link you to resources available to help you with this decision.

I think I might have PPD.  What should I do?
Contact POEM for additional support and guidance, as well as consult a health care professional for a full assessment.